I have to admit that this post is not my idea but my dear friend Abu Fares’ who, I am quite confident, will allow me to adopt it .. right dear friend?
The thought to “crown” someone “Person of the Year 2006” did very much appeal to me but on trying to focus a bit closer on this idea, it almost appeared like an impossible task. After all, there were countless people who stood out in this or the other way … it would be something REALLY special, something out of the ordinary, proved special courage, having jumped over the own shadow against all the odds … being a winner in one or another way, somebody who refuses to quit even in the darkest of times! It was a hard nut to crack!

I weighed for quite a while who I would even consider and take into closer consideration .. and after having flipped through the countless pictures, names and stories in the memory-files of my brain and weighed very carefully, I am confident I found just the right person, someone whoin my opinion truly deserves it. She is not well known, probably hardly anyone heard her name already or knows what she’d doing and just that appealed to me. She’s an extraordinary person!

Her name is Fida Qishta and there’s a good chance, you will ask “who on earth is THAT”? Well … Fida is someone who did the impossible, proved extraordinary mental strength, refused to be eaten up and destroyed by the dark forces of hatred and managed in an almost incredible way and strength to pull herself up and out of the swamp of destruction and utter pain … and turn it into something beautiful, convert it to love and compassion for the ones who always suffer most from a conflict … children. Fida cares for children in the most difficult conditions. I greatly admire here .. she is my choice!

Here is her story, very eloquently told in June 2006 by fellow blogger and journalist Laila el-Haddad.

Fida is a young Palestinian woman from Gaza‘s battered Rafah refugee camp. Her story, like so many others, is as devastating as it is inspiring, especially because it is so rare to see such resilience, tenacity, and hope from someone-and a Gaza woman at that-who has endured so much trauma and dread.

Fida is a 23 year old educator and community activist. She was born and raised in the Rafah refugee camp. In addition to Arabic, she speaks English, French, and some German, all of which she learned. Fida’s life was turned upside-down, quite literally, when her house was demolished without warning (she has 2 minutes to take her most important life possessions with her, and did not even have time to take the only picture she had of her deceased best friend) by armoured Israeli bulldozers in 2004.

Fida’s life was shattered in the span of those few minutes-and suddenly she became of those nameless statistics, one of the 16, 000 who lost their homes in Rafah. Since that time, Fida and her family moved 7 times, most recently renting a house in Rafah town. Two of her cousins were killed, one because he refused to leave his house when Israeli soldiers commanded him to do so in order for them to raze his home. They demolished it on top of him.

But as traumatic as it was to lose her home and become a refugee all over again so suddenly,so senselessly. the major turning point in Fida’s life happened while she was standing on the side of one of Rafah‘s dusty, unearthed streets days later. An Israeli sniper was monitoring the street from afar-and she, and many others, needed to cross to get to shelter. She hesitated, she explained, because her family, on the other side, told her to stay put, while others encouraged her to cross quickly.

In her moment of hesitation, a young boy-10 years old, decided to demonstrate his bravado, in a place where everyone wants desperately to become a hero; where bravery is all young boys have left to cling to. “You’re afraid? Well, I’m not. See!” What happened next, Fida said, was like something out of a bad dream. The sniper struck the boy with a single bullet to the head. And before she knew it, Fida ran out to the middle of the street, and carried the boy to an ambulance. “I can tell you it wasn’t me out there. Till this day, I’m not sure who it was that carried that boy”. Medics later confirmed the boy died on the street, when the bullet struck.

But despite all this, she managed to find a glimmer of hope to cling to and build upon. She opened a children’s center and afterschool program based on Muslim-televangalist Amr Khalid’s “Lifemakers” concept, that went from having 40 students to 300, and from 2 teachers to ten. The center also organized city-wide street and cemetary cleanups, with the philosphy of taking an active role in changing their lives. “If the municpality cant’ or won’t do it, then we can’t sit around and complain or watch idly; we have to take an active role in changing our lives,” Fida explained. Fida also has plans for several other projects, such as building playgronds in and around refugee camps and changing the road signs in Gaza. Here’s to Fida-and all the young, inspiring Palestinian women like her.

ALF MABROUK Fida … keep up the good work!!


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: